To get a girlfriend is one of the hardest accomplishments for many men, even pickup artists. So the question remains, how do you get a girlfriend? If you’ve yet to meet women, you should do that first. This guide is for guys or pickup artists who are casually involved with a woman and want them as their girlfriend. Because hey, once you meet a cool woman, you should learn how to keep her.
Step 1: How To Get A Girlfriend
First, you must understand that what works with pickup, does not necessarily work when you want a girlfriend. You should understand that on the whole, you need to be less “jerky” and more understanding in a few areas. I’m not advocating turning into a wuss and doing everything your girlfriend wants, far from it. I’m saying, if you want a girlfriend, you should start doing the things that a girlfriend expects. Share more feelings with her, open up with her on a less superficial level, and spend more time pleasing her into the bedroom than just yourself. A quote from Neil Strauss, “If you want a woman to be your girlfriend, then make sure she has a constant supply of orgasms. If you’re missing that, then your girlfriend will likely leave soon.”
Step 2: How To Get A Girlfriend
Second, you should definitely start involving her with other parts of your life. If you start seeing a woman three or more times a week you should realize that she might expect more than just a casual hookup. This is in your court, so don’t make the mistake of saying “shes getting real clingy” when you’ve clearly been giving her those signals yourself. When you start to invite her to activities with your family, friends or work, you should realize that you are sending this woman signals that you want her to be your girlfriend.
Step 3: How To Get A Girlfriend
Third, you should now start putting off the vibe that she’s more important to you than before. If you want a woman to be your girlfriend, start treating her the way a woman should be treated in public. There’s no harm in being honest, and this is actually a super alpha male trait. By being honest with her, by saying something like, “I think you’re great. If I play my cards right, you’ll trick me into having you as my girlfriend.” (With a BIG smile) Gauge the interactions, you can usually feel when a commitment of some sort is about to hit the fan.
Lastly, be mellow about the whole situation. Never act clingy – this is a unattractive quality that comes from scarcity and jealously. Let her bring up the girlfriend situation by herself. Trust me, if you’re providing value to her life, she’ll want to be your girlfriend. Give this at least a few months of dating, and never be predictable during that time. Follow the basic rules of pickup, until you’re ready for the commitment of having her as your girlfriend. Then when you’re ready come back and follow these rules to get a girlfriend.